Alyse was born on April 16, 1991, in Cleveland, Ohio to Marcellus Gray Jr. and Lori Shy. She grew up in Cleveland Heights, Ohio, and Twinsburg, Ohio, before traveling to Columbus, Ohio to obtain her Bachelor of Arts in Psychology, Master of Arts in Psychology, and Ed.S. in School Psychology from The Ohio State University. Alyse’s ambition and passion for helping others continued as she obtained her Ph.D. in Educational Leadership and Policy from The University of Texas San Antonio.

During her junior year at Ohio State, Alyse found the love of her life, Benjamin Parker. The two married in July of 2017, and grew a beautiful life together across several states, eventually landing in Washington, D.C. It was there where Alyse joined the Institute for Higher Education Policy as a Research Analyst and then most recently found herself as an Associate Director of Federal Relations for the University of Iowa.

Alyse was a shining light to those whom she met; full of life, joy, and kindness to all. She had a sense of adventure, exploring new places, restaurants, and culture. When not working, Alyse loved taking walks with Ben and their beloved dog, Jax, in the neighborhoods of D.C. She was a loving wife, daughter, sister, friend, and many things to so many people, always making time for others.

Before her passing, Alyse was surrounded by love at the baby shower for their daughter, Olivia Ada Parker. Alyse is now resting in the heavens with her daughters Malia and Olivia.

Alyse left an indelible impression on the IHEP team. She co-authored several seminal IHEP reports, including The Most Important Door That Will Ever Open and Equitable Value: Promoting Economic Mobility and Social Justice Through Postsecondary Education. More important, she was a cherished teammate, bringing sparks of joy, passion, and warmth to every interaction. IHEP is a better place because of Alyse’s time here.